If there are three things sex shouldn’t be, it’s dull, repetitive, and unsatisfying. Yet only 29% of women and 75% of men report reaching orgasm during sex.

If you often stick with the same positions, are unable to climax, or physical intimacy feels non-existent right now, it might be time to rejuvenate your sex life. 



If your sexual satisfaction has dipped or you’re stuck in a sex rut right now, you’ll be happy to learn there are many tools and techniques to improve your pleasure. 

Are you ready to unleash your wild side? Here are four adventurous things to try in the bedroom.

1. Embrace Your Kinks
Almost everyone has a kink. So rather than feeling embarrassed about what gets you hot under the collar, incorporate it into your sex life.

It doesn’t matter if you love wearing heels in bed, spanking, bondage, or electrostimulation; embracing who you are, and your kinks could transform your sex life. 

Plus, it will make you and your partner feel a little more adventurous in the bedroom.

2. Make a Sex Tape
Did you know that only 48% of married women want regular sex after four years? 

If you’re one of the many people who are in a sex rut, it’s time to shake things up.

A little excitement could transform your physical and emotional connection with your other half and improve sexual satisfaction.

If you’re stuck for ideas on how to relight the spark, consider making a sex tape with your spouse.

Wear clothing or lingerie that will make your partner feel their blood pumping and heart racing, and that will allow you to burst with confidence once you hit the record button. 

The thrill of recording yourselves could be enough to encourage you to unleash your wild side.

3. Use Sex Toys
Adult toys can spice up the dullest of sex lives, as they will allow you to explore your own or your partner’s body, increase stimulation, and boost your pleasure in the bedroom.

You’re not alone if you’re considering incorporating sex toys into a relationship, as 45% of people reportedly use them.

Vibrators and cock rings are ideal for those who are starting out using adult toys. 

However, if you’re looking for items to add more adventure into your sex life, pegging toys can spice up physical intimacy and improve your own or your partner’s sexual pleasure.

4. Attend a Virtual Sex Party from Your Bedroom
Virtual sex parties increased in popularity during the COVID-19 pandemic, and many people continue to attend online events from the comfort of their bedrooms.

If you’ve always considered the idea of swinging or enjoying sex in public, a virtual sex party could be the perfect way to explore your more adventurous side.

The virtual parties provide users with a secure online environment to connect with like-minded people and even embrace erotic practices, such as BDSM.

Many of the biggest dating apps on the planet have even taken the steps to provide their users with a safe online space to connect with others intimately.