Studies show that men who stimulate their prostate on a regular basis, have a less chance of being diagnosed with prostate cancer before they reach 70.  

So how to you stimulate your prostate? Let’s find out!

What is a Prostate Massager?

A prostate massager is a sex toy that stimulates the prostate gland, also known as the P-spot, through its meticulously crafted design. Most men discover this area with their curious fingers, or their partners, and move on to prostate sex toys. The massagers generally have smooth tip for easy insertion and a rounded head for precise stimulation. Some massagers rely on your body movement during sexual play to rub against the P-spot, while others vibrate the prostate gland for stimulation.

Prostate play is the immensely satisfying sexcapade you’re probably missing out on!

An intense epicenter of pleasure, called the P-spot, quietly lurks a few inches within the anus on the wall closest to the stomach. Continuous stimulation of this spot can result to an explosive body-wide orgasms and even multiple climaxes. Finding the prostate gland is a simple task, but properly playing it takes time and skill. Lucky for you, there are some tricks and toys to help you get started.

Some prostate toys also stimulate the perineum, a sensitive spot found between the anus and the testicles. Although it may sound intimidating, the larger ones are actually recommended to beginners for effortless detection of the P-spot

Massagers with smaller tips offer a more pleasurable experience. It may be slightly harder to locate the prostate gland, but it offers a more intense session. 

A prostate massager stimulates the prostate gland in men and can greatly help men ejaculate, reducing their risk of prostate cancer. According to Harvard, an Australian study confirmed that men who ejaculate 4.6 to 7 times a week had less chances of being diagnosed with prostate cancer before they reach 70.  

Tips for Choosing a Prostate Massager

Want to give it a go? It can be difficult to locate the gland, but manufacturers have designed numerous sex toys that easily spots the erogenous zone. Unlike standard dildos, prostate massagers are specifically designed in a curved way to hit the prostate with just the right angle. Add some lube, get sexy, and enjoy the amazing sensations.

1. Size

Size is definitely the first thing that comes to mind when choosing a prostate toy. Prostate massagers are specifically designed for their shape, but they are available in many sizes. Beginners usually prefer the slimmer ones, around 1 inch in diameter or even less. If you’re confident to handle a larger toy, consider choosing ones with broader diameter. If you want to play it safe, stick to the thinner ones and work your way up for a comfortable experience.

2. Hands-Free

Hands-free orgasms are a part of the perks of having prostate toys. It is considered the Holy Grail of sexual stimulation to men. With only a rocking motion, the toy can do the job without much assistance. If you haven’t mastered to movements, try a vibrating version to stimulate the prostate gland for you.

3. Handle

The popular curve is the trademark of the prostate toy. However, they vary in the handles. Some toys are designed with a circular handle while others have flat handles. In the end, it comes down to preference to find your favorite toys.

4. Anytime, anywhere

In public situations, butt plugs are the popular choice when it comes to anal play, but it’s exciting and daring to use a prostate toy in public. If you’re up to the challenge, make sure to choose an inconspicuous one with a flat base.

5. Vibrations

Prostate massagers equipped with vibrations usually include a small hole for a removable vibrating bullet. If you’re having second thoughts, purchase toys with a removable bullet, or just turn it off. Built-in vibrations provide much more powerful sensations to the prostate gland.

6. Perineal Stimulation

Some men find stimulation to the perineal area exciting during a prostate organism. Some prostate toys are now made with a small tab in the base to effectively stimulate the area, usually with vibrations.

7. Prostate Dildos

It may be not considered a standard prostate toy, but a correctly-curved G-spot or P-spot dildo can stimulate the prostate area. Dildos can also be attached on a strap-on harness for an exciting couples experience. 

8. Ask around

Men love to talk about their sexual conquests so ask your male buddies about prostate massagers. Ask them which ones they’ve tried and whether or not they’re worth the money. Friends are more likely to give you honest opinions about products to avoid and which ones deserve a try. 

9. Budget

Prostate sex toys vary in material, design and features, so prices will vary too. Knowing your budget can help you narrow down your choices.

10. Lube

As the anus does not produce its own lubricant, it is vital to add lube to your toy. The basic choice in lube is water based (which soaks in to your skin quickly and may need re-application, but is easy to clean up) or silicone (which last longer, is slippery, but messier to clean). Anal lubricants are also available and often have added ingredients to numb or relax the area.

Now that you are familiar with the range of prostate massagers, is it time to buy one. You may end up with a range of toys to suit your mood. Now brace yourself for a prostate adventure and enjoy the intense pleasure of prostate orgasms.