There are a lot of reasons people find commitment a hard thing to do. In relationships, the one who's more afraid of committing is also the one who's craving the most love and connection. The problem: they just can't seem to find it. Here's what these kind of people fear the most.

1. They get stressed out when people ask them about person X.


2. They worry when things start to get "serious"


3. They fear "Friends with Benefits" become "Friends with Feelings"


4. They fear putting a label on things.


5. They fear "having the talk"


6. They fear they'll get let down like they did in their past experience


7. They fear making plans because it would require them to be all-in.


8. They wonder how people can be in long term relationships.


9. They fear they'll ruin a "very good thing" if they mix it all up a little.


10. They don't really want to be with you forever, only just in-the-moment. That's all.


11. They fear if you knew the truth about that, you'd jet at the first opportunity, so they just try to stall

12. They don't fear when things are over. They are relieved. They fear the hurdle of finding someone to replace you.


13. They fear long durations of time spent with someone. They basically fear relationships.


14. They fear you aren't really the one, and they're still looking around.


If you're in a "relationship" with someone like that, get out now. Don't waste your time.