They say music unites people. Indeed, what can be more exciting than picking up girls who share your musical tastes? Moreover, you don’t need to think out what to discuss first. People usually visit such events with some purpose, so you are free to talk about your favourite bands, singers, and compositions. Additionally, girls at big outdoor concerts are more open to communication with strangers.



Music is one of the most powerful hypnotic methods: listening to it, people become much more “vulnerable” to affection. Thus, a festival is nothing but a perfect space for flirting. Now, let’s have a look at some ways to charm girls at such gatherings.

Get next to her

At the show, don’t flirt with the first available chick. Look around in search of a truly likeable girl. After you have found her in the crowd, approach her. Remain inconspicuous – she mustn’t understand you like her before it’s time. Figure out the situation first: whether she came here with friends or with a boyfriend, whether she seems ready for new affairs, etc.   

Become visible

First of all, you must make her notice you. How? The best way is to merely have fun. If you come with some friends (we really hope so), it’s easy to draw her attention to your group singing and dancing. Your high spirits will spread over the people around, and you will easily start mingling with those. This is your time to come closer to her and start talking or dancing together.

Offer her to go up on your shoulders

At lively gatherings, it’s rather hard to have a perfect view of the stage: someone constantly wanders under your nose, so you have to rise on your toes or peep through the crowd. Guys are luckier than girls in this aspect because they are generally taller. Considering this, you may invite her to sit on your shoulders to see the big picture.

Join her friends

Another trick to win a girl`s attention is to make friends with her buddies. Surely, it will be more suitable if you bring your own peers. Hanging out together, you will effortlessly maintain the contact with a lady you want. It is a good chance to introduce yourself and show her you are a fun person without being too straightforward. Take an advantage!

Ask her for a dance

When people do something together, they normally build a connection. Physical activity will be the best choice if you attempt to attract a girl. While dancing, you adjust to each other’s rhythm, your body movements synchronize, and her mind becomes one with yours. Make sure you look and smell good, so she will be pleased to stay close to you and prolong the acquaintance.

Buy her a drink

As you already know, music can put anyone in a trance. And when it combines with alcohol, the effect doubles. We wouldn’t advise you to act like a creep by plying her with liquors and having sex. On the other hand, you may prove yourself as a polite and generous guy by offering her one drink. This will create a relaxing air for communication.

Give her a shelter

If this is an overnight show, you are likely to camp somewhere nearby. Your next job is to spend a while with a girl you are interested in and potentially fascinate her. After the concert goes down, try to invite her to your tent to chat or even to sleep. If she doesn’t seem to be ready for some big deals, you may just ask her out.

Suggest you drive her home

Let’s assume she arrived at the show by her friend`s car or she is quite drunk to drive on her own. In this case, it is totally legitimate to give her a hand. She will barely refuse if she likes your wooing. On your way to her place, a plenty of things may happen. It’s an opportunity to talk more, to ask her number (if you still don’t have it), to find out her address, or even get a kiss. Everything depends on your efforts after all. 

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