"Where" and "How" you touch can make her hot in seconds
We're big fans of the penis, but we'll admit that
it's not the perfect sex tool. It's too unpredictable and clumsy to use on many
parts of a woman's body. Hands, however, have no such limitations. Take ten
minutes to read this article and you'll learn exactly how to use yours to the
best possible effect...
...all over her
body The classic naked massage that turns into rampant sex is
terrific -- but hardly unpredictable. Forget the techniques you learned from
your sports trainer and ignore those articles in women's magazines about
sensuous five-hour massages. Instead gently work her shoulders with your
fingertips while she's giving you oral sex. Or try massaging her scalp. This has
the added advantage of relaxing her so she can become more easily
hips Of all the places you can
park your hands during intercourse, this is one of the best: If she's on top,
use your hands to help guide her as she thrusts. It's like power steering --
she's still in control but doesn't have to work as hard.
If you're on top, reach under her and use your hands
to grasp her hips and lift her pelvis toward you. Your thrusts will be deeper.
"It also helps her feel as if the two of you are working together, instead of
you just doing your thing on top of her," says psychologist Mark
...on her feet They're so
packed with nerve endings that some women claim that they can reach orgasm just
by having their feet rubbed (which is probably why women are so fond of playing
footsie with table legs). The key to a foot massage that doesn't tickle: a firm
touch. "You should press in and stroke hard enough to give her pleasure -- but
not hard enough to cause pain, or light enough to tickle," says Robert Schwartz,
author of The One-Hour Orgasm.
1. Gently knead the bottom of
her foot from ankle to toe, using your entire hand.
2. Now focus on each toe
separately, tugging and massaging as you go. Pay special attention to the middle
toe, which some researchers believe has a direct nerve connection to the
3. Finish with deep, relaxing
strokes in the arch.
4. Some women find the idea of
having a man paint their toenails a turn-on, probably because of the powerplay
element, but don't even attempt this if you haven't held a paintbrush since
penis There is one way to make
your member do things it can't do on its own: give it a helping hand. "Many
women find it very erotic to be teased at the opening of the vagina,” says
Elliott. Grasp the base of your penis with your hand and gently make circles
around the clitoris, or run the underside of the shaft along her inner lips.
Pretend, but don't penetrate. Pull out before you're halfway in. You can also
use your hands to slap your penis against various parts of her body -- her
mouth, armpits, back and nipples.
face She'll love it when you
touch her here, as long as you're not mauling her as if you're rearranging the
features on Mr. Potato Head. "Men tend to touch women with more pressure than
they like," says psychologist and sex therapist Linda De Villers. Use a light
touch, and follow these steps:
1. Caress her cheeks, ears and temples with the pads
of your fingers, using gentle upward and outward strokes. 2. Using circular
motions, gently massage the centre of her forehead and the bridge of her nose
with your thumbs. 3. Use your fingertips to trace around her lips. Gently
part them and insert the tip of your finger inside her mouth, letting her lick,
nibble and suck. Remind you of anything else? Maybe it'll remind her too. 4.
Finish by raking your hands gently upward on both sides of her face. Then run
your fingers up through her hair and down the sides, finishing at the back of
..up and down her
spine Think of her back as one
long erogenous zone. Trace it with your fingertips from the nape of her neck to
the crease of her buttocks, lingering at any spot that produces a moan. For a
sexual masterclass, re-trace the path of your fingers with the tip of your
penis. Tricky, yes, but you'll score maximum points for technical
breasts Men treat breasts as
if they were dartboards -- always aiming for the bull's-eye at the center.
That's fine, but don't forget you can score high points elsewhere on the board.
"Use your whole hand, and focus on the entire breast," says De Villers. Cupping
and cuddling is especially good. So is lifting, but you never want to push a
woman's breasts downward as this can be painful.
Work on giving her cleavage, too, since women like to
think of themselves as having lots of it. "It can be a turn-on for her just to
look down and think: 'Mmm, that's sexy'," says De Villers. Even light bouncing
is okay, especially during the heat of the moment. The key word here, though, is
light. Breasts might be rounded and fit nicely in your hands but they're not
...on her butt "Many
women expect you to grab their buttocks during sex," says De Villers. "And they
expect you to do it firmly." One thing to keep in mind: strokes that lift and
bring the cheeks apart are better than those that depress or bring the cheeks
"It creates more surface area," says De Villers. Your
hands can also be used to gently slap her buttocks. Not all women enjoy being
spanked but there are many who do. If spanking becomes a regular part of your
sex-play, try smothering cold cream over the area you've just made pink: it'll
provide an interesting contrast of sensations for her and will also soothe the
...on her genitals When
a woman masturbates, she usually rests her wrist on her lower abdomen. But when
you stimulate her genitals for her you're forced to contort your arm and hand to
achieve the right position. Next time, try sitting underneath her, with her back
against your front. Reach your hand around and rest your wrist just above her
But don't make the mistake most men make: relying on
just one finger. "You need to use at least two, and preferably three or four,"
says De Villers. "And they should function in unison, like a paintbrush." Keep
the heel of your palm planted on the hair-covered mound known as her mons pubis,
then curl your fingers to use gentle back-and-forth and circular motions between
her lips and over her clitoris. Start slowly -- incorporating short pauses to
keep her guessing -- then increase your speed as her arousal builds. Use your
other hand to play with her nipples, or, if you prefer, yourself.
perineum This is the little
spot of flesh just below the opening of her vagina. There are a lot of
nerve-endings in the perineum that respond well to light pressure or gentle
stroking. If you can reach it, this is an area that's great to stimulate during
thrusting. Use one or two fingers to apply about the same amount of pressure
you'd use to push a button in an elevator. Be careful. The perineum is close to
another opening -- one that should never be entered without an
genitals What's the one advantage your thinner, shorter fingers have
over the organ that was designed specifically to fill a vagina? Unlike your
erect penis, they bend and swivel. "That allows fingers to focus on a particular
spot in the vagina in ways that your penis can't," says De Villers. Use your
knuckles. A come-hither motion along the front wall of the vagina -- about an
inch in -- is the best.
But don't focus all your energy in one place. "It's
the ring around the lower third of the vagina that has the most nerve-endings,
and it's possible she has sensitive spots on any wall," says De Villers.
Circular motions are a refreshing change of pace, since your penis can really
only move in a straight line. Using your fingers to stimulate her can be tricky,
not least because she'll always know how to do it better than you. If in doubt,
don't ask her how to do it -- get her to show you.
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