Here are a couple more pointers on how to improve on hooking up. Hey, no guarantees!

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Your classy lady might just be a naughty superfreak on the inside -- it's up to you to coax that out of her. The key: Tell her it's okay. "Women are conditioned to fulfill the role of 'good girl,' " says Judith Scherven, Ph.D., coauthor of Be Loved for Who You Really Are. "They need permission from you to break that mold, to change from being their parents' good girl to being your hot girlfriend." Here's how.

Give Her the Power
Imagine her doing something wild, then describe it to her. "You have to see her that way before she'll be able to act that way," says Scherven. "She has to feel confident that you think she's capable of it."

Show Her Off
"In public, whisper how much she turns you on and combine that with some neck kissing," says Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First. Get her used to feeling sexy in public and she'll reciprocate in private.

Grant Her Wishes
If she's joked about skinny-dipping, find a lake. If she's mentioned skydiving, book the plane. "Overcoming her fears with her will build trust and make her more likely to go out on a limb the next time," says Yvonne Fulbright, author of the Hot Guide to Safer Sex. You're giving her the security to be daring.

Tease Her All Day
Plant a long kiss on her in the a.m. and tell her you can't wait to ravage her later. "Knowing you find her irresistible is the ultimate turn-on," says Regena Thomashauer, author of Mama Gena's Marriage Manual. Follow up with phone calls and you'll both be counting the hours.