odds are, you don't need any pointers from me on how to choke the
chicken. Spank the monkey. Flog the bishop. You get the idea. But if
you're looking to re-invent your sex life, you can make mutual
masturbation with your partner a great way to increase the pleasures of
foreplay and yes, even climax.
What Mutual Masturbation Can Do For You Both
If you and
your partner are new to one another's bodies, mutual masturbation is a
great way to start intimate encounters. Here's the big secret: many
women actually prefer handplay and cunnilingus to intercourse. Why?
Because the clitoris doesn't get the same kind of love from a pounding
penis as from a skilled finger or a talented tongue.
also offers a lot of opportunities for sharing. The best way to enjoy
masturbating with a partner is to make sure both sides are pleasuring
each other, rather than one person doing all the work at one time. This
will create a heightened sexual moment and encourage both parties to
enjoy the charge between both people. And hey, good giving often
encourages extra effort from your partner, so everyone wins!
advantage of having mutual masturbation in your sex life is that you'll
both be given a lot of control in how long you want to prolong or
expedite the climax. This is great if you've got the candles lit and
are looking to really get each other off - rather than a fast rumble in
the sheets followed by a courteous, "thanks for playing!"
Supplies and Suggestions
a gentle lubricant handy is ideal to get the most from mutual
masturbation. Several brands are available from any drugstore that will
do the trick - preferably you'll want to use water-based lubes. If you
want to really make the most from your pleasure sessions, invest in
some good quality lubes like what you'll find at a Hustler store or
other erotic shop. These lotions are generally formulated for the
extremely sensitive skin that you'll be working with. Another advantage
to some specialty lotions is that water-based lubes are edible, meaning
if you decide to change gears and go down on one another, you're not
stuck with try to rinse off the oil or consuming lubricant by the
tablespoon. If you're not sure what's right for you, ask for help at
your local erotic shop.
starting your pleasure session, it's advisable to make sure you both
have very clean hands - nobody wants to get dirt down there! This is
true of almost any sexual escapade though - cleanliness is a good
thing. Get dirty and sweaty during - not before.
reminder: make sure both of you take off your rings and bracelets. If
you're both shaved, bracelets might be okay, but you want to avoid
getting hairs caught in watches or jewelery while you're trying to rev
up the engines.
Positions and Techniques
and foremost, mutual masturbation provides a lot of opportunity to be
completely connected to your partner's pleasure. You won't be face-deep
in her crotch, and you won't be in the throes of intercourse; you'll
both be able to communicate about what feels good or what doesn't.
Talking dirty to each other while you're masturbating each other is
sure to feed the fire and increase sexual pleasure (assuming you don't
say anything incredibly dense like calling out another girl's name, or
worse, her pet's).
the easiest first way to set up yourselves for mutual masturbation is
to lie slightly upright on a bed facing each other. This way you'll be
able to relax (because you won't have your body in an uncomfortable or
energy-sapping position), and you'll both be able to reach each other.
Once you've found comfortable positions, it's time to start lubing up
and getting down to business. If you've already started fooling around,
she might even have enough natural lubricant so that you don't need to
apply any on your hands. The secret to lubricant is to remember you can
always apply more later. If it gets too slippery, the friction is
diminished. As friction goes, so does pleasure; so keep the amount of
lubricant limited to just a small amount every few minutes.
fingers and palms to explore her inner thighs and her lower abdomen; if
you create physical tension in her upper legs, your touch on her labia
will set off a wave of relaxation and amplify her pleasure.
great way to find out how she wants to get off is to have her hand
guide yours to find her pleasure spots. Not every woman is the same;
what worked on one might not work on another. Just like you know what
feels best for you, she'll know what she wants you to do to her. Follow
the exact motions her fingers make so you can learn where to touch and
how much pressure to apply. Depending on her mood, it might be fast and
furious, or calm and caressing. On the flipside, you may have to show
her the best way to please you as well. Some women just go for a
zero-pleasure tugging session thinking that's all it takes. Encourage
her to explore your body as well, and to caress everything that you've
got to offer.
Other Positions and Techniques
long as it feels good, there's no right or wrong way to do anything in
the bedroom. Try experimenting with different positions. One of the
best ones is to have your back pressed against the headboard or wall,
upright. Put her body on top of yours facing each other. This will give
her a great angle to work on you, and you can slide your fingers
against her spread thighs. Another position is the 69 (facing one
another's genitals), but make your fingers and hands do the work your
mouth normally would. Even slipping a tongue in to the action won't
remember, as with any sexual opportunity with your partner, don't be
selfish! The more you give, the more you'll receive in the end. Mutual
masturbation can be your entire session, or just the starting point to
an evening of erotic and sensual lovemaking. Take the time to explore
each other's bodies and you'll enjoy the experience, as well as
guarantee a satisfying, climactic finish!
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