One of the most important things a guy can learn when adventuring in
the domain of seduction is to learn how to connect with women. If you
can create an undeniable connection with a woman that you’ve just met,
then your chances of success skyrocket ten folds.
Even if your approach, conversation skills and overall performance
don’t work perfectly, if you have a connection, then she’ll still
remember you long after you part ways. You can be the smoothest guy in
the world, but if you can’t connect with the women you talk to, they
will enjoy the ride while it last, but you can forget about having a
So what forms a connection between two people? The common answers that
you’ll hear vary from “liking the same things” and to “just being
similar” but this couldn’t be further from the truth. What really forms
a connection is when people two people communicate with each other
while being on the same wavelength.
The wavelength concept can best be described by a cheesy movie scene.
Imagine a scenario in which a lonely girl walks into the book store,
and begins perusing the politics section. At the same time, a guy walks
in, lonely as well, kind of walks in and goes to the politics section
to look for a book. She drops a book, he picks it up and hands it back
She smiles and they click.
When these two meet at the same section of the bookstore, they in
perfect harmony. Their objectives are similar, energy levels similar,
and things just click. It doesn’t matter what kind of shows she likes,
or where she likes to hang out… if they can connect in that one moment,
they’ll be likely to see each other again.
Being on the same wavelength means matching the other person’s
emotional state and having a common objective. If you’re in a bar where
everyone’s drunk and in the mood to have fun, then if you try to have a
serious conversation, you’ll never connect. On the other hand, if you
can match their ‘let’s just have fun’ state, then it’s likely that
you’ll be more successful.
This frequently applies to scenarios during the day. When a woman is
just trying to get to a place in a hurry, don’t try to stop her for a
serious conversation. Instead, be in a hurry yourself to get somewhere,
and while you’re both in a hurry, try to strike up a conversation.
A little trick to help you achieve the same wavelength is to ask
yourself: What’s going through this person’s mind right now? Figure out
their reality first, and then it will be much easier to match it.
Remember, achieving the same wavelength requires a developed social
intelligence. This means that you’re sensitive and acute to how others
are feeling around you. If you can pick up the subtle (and sometimes
not-so subtle) cues that people project, you’ll be in a better position
to adopt a similar state as them.
Now here’s where most guys go wrong: You can’t fake it!
If you’re in a party and you’re only pretending to be there to have
fun, they’ll know. In order to really connect with women, you must
truly adopt the emotional state that she is in. If she’s happy, then
you must truly be happy, likewise, if she’s in a hurry, then you really
need to be a in a hurry!
So the next time you’re feeling a little down, find another girl that
seems to be going through the same thing and talk to her. You’ll
connect and it might just change both of your mods!
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