Men and women do not think alike or interpret events in the same way
at all. This is not a bad thing as opposites often attract. But if we
understand how each other thinks differently, then we can get on
famously and not put pressure on our partners to be like us or expect
too much from the other person. A key element to a harmonious
relationship is to understand the essence of who they are and not try
to make them become who we are.
TIP 1: Stop expecting your man to say how he is
feeling through words. Men tend to tell you what they are feeling
though their actions. They don't naturally connect emotions with
language, like we do. If you want to know more about a man, you will
just need to spend time watching how he communicates.
TIP 2: As women, we love a good chat, as it makes
us feel vital and alive. In fact, our number one priority is to have
meaningful conversations with others. We tend to understand more about
life though our interactions, and we are very good at this. Men tend to
feel more vital and alive through competition. It's the thrill of the
chase that is so exhilarating, even more than winning. They have an
innate desire to dominate and conquer. Try interrupting a man when he
is playing a video game, watching sports or building something.
TIP 3: As women, we are really curious about the
emotional effect that events have on others and how people respond to
what goes on around them. It's almost not the event that's the most
important thing, it's how the event makes us or others who are involved
feel. Men, on the other hand, tend to be more task-oriented. They love
the event itself and activities that have tangible outcomes.
TIP 4: Women are extremely complex, multi-faceted,
ever-changing and evolving. Men are graceful and simple, what you see
is what you get. Once a man finds something that rewards him in a way
that is meaningful to him, he will stay with it forever.
TIP 5: Women are problem-oriented. We spend time
and energy talking about, reading about and trying to gain insight into
any problem area of our lives, and then we devote time to resolving it.
We tend to think a relationship will only flourish if we talk about it
on a regular basis. Men, on the other hand, are solution-oriented; if
something is broken they want to fix it as soon as possible. That's why
he gives advice before we have finished talking about how we feel. He
doesn't need to know why something broke necessarily and doesn't need
to analyze the events that led up to the breakdown, he wants to solve
the problem and then have things to return to normal as quickly as
possible. If there is nothing broken in the relationship they see no
point in discussing it. Men do what works and want to get results with
the least amount of effort.
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