Good sex isn't just about
penetration. In any loving relationship, there are countless ways to
drive each other wild without getting jiggy. Being open and honest
about what turns you both on is important. Being good with your hands
is essential, however, especially when it comes to manipulating his
member. His penis has more nerve endings than almost any other part of
his body, and your hands are the best way to fire them all up. It's
also one of the safest forms of sexual expression there is. After all,
you can't get pregnant from a hand job!
Handle with care
a good reason why a guy's tackle is often called the 'Crown Jewels'.
For him, it's the most precious bit of his body, and something that
needs to be handled with great care. Tugging away like a carrot picker
will get him crying out for all the wrong reasons, as will squeezing so
hard both heads turn blue. He might make out that it's a rod of iron,
but the truth is it's a deeply sensitive organ that will respond far
better to a more thoughtful touch. Using a lubricant may help you both,
too, and he'll thank you for a clean pair of hands.
Find the 'pole position'
not just his comfort you need to consider when you're rubbing him up
the right way, but yours too. Let's face it, you really don't want to
be in a situation where he's moaning with pleasure and you're moaning
with hand cramps. It's got to be good for you both, and the way you're
positioned is important. Anything from having him lie on the bed, or
sitting on a chair with his legs apart will make your handiwork a
happier, more rewarding experience.
Get to grips
works with one guy may not be good for another, and often the best way
to find out is by asking! Encourage him to show you how he pleasures
himself, then take the lead and be creative. As a basic starting point,
however, grip his penis gently with your hand/s and slowly stroke it up
and down. Be sensitive to the way he responds, and you'll soon find the
confidence to try out different techniques. Ultimately, the only limit
is your imagination, so here are a few ideas to get you thinking;
The Ring of Pleasure Instead
of using your hand around his shaft, form a donut ring with your thumb
and forefinger and get a rhythm going just under the glans at the top
of his penis.
The Comb Over On every other 'upswing' or so, take your thumb and rub it over the top of his penis head before bringing your hand down again.
The Pastry Worm Sandwich
his penis between the flat of both hands, then roll one hand forward
and the other back. Repeat the motion back and forth as if you were
playing with pastry, and not trying to light a fire with sticks.
Headers and ball control
to extend your attention to the head of his penis as well as his
testicles - two very sensitive areas of the male genitalia. Rubbing
your thumb around the rim of his bell end and/or gently cupping his
balls while you work is guaranteed to make his toes curl with pleasure.
Call the shots
can't stress enough that manual stimulation should be something you
both enjoy. Like sex, it's not compulsory and nor should you feel
obliged to bring him to orgasm. In short, he needs to be sensitive to
your needs too, and respect the fact that a helping hand from you
doesn't have to be a means to an end.
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