When men get turned on you immediately assume he's only out to satisfy his own sexual needs. But what do men really think about when they're having sex with you?
Here are some thoughts that have probably crossed your guy's mind at least once while you were going at it:
"Was that an orgasm?" When men orgasm, you know it. You can see it, and they collapse right ater. But when you orgasm, they're sometimes confused when you keep going like nothing really happened. They wonder if they should keep going, or if they should stop. They're basically just wondering if the show should go on.
"I forgot to shower!" They know you might be bothered with the whiffs of body odor during sex, but they got too caught up in the moment, and they know it probably won't be the best sex session.
"These breasts are perfect!" From a man's perspective, the best breasts are the ones that have recently been exposed solely for his enjoyment.
"This is so awesome, I need to remember this for later" Because when you're not around and they need to jack off solo, it pays to have fond memories of your naked bodies to help out when they're masturbating.
"Don't come yet, buddy, not yet" Men don't want to come after 5 minutes of being inside you. So they distract themselves with other unsexy thoughts that would kill off their orgasm for an orgasm for later. Sometimes they'll tell you, but some men would rather...
"Play it cool" They basically want you to think that they're totally in charge, even when they're not. Admit it ladies, it's an even bigger turn on when a guy seems to know what he's doing in bed with you.
"Keep it up!" Sometimes things don't go the way he's planned. He can't seem to erect, and your sexy time is over before it even began. Stress and booze are common culprits, but whatever it is, men hate disappointing their ladies. So let them know you aren't hurt by it and boy will he try harder next time!
"I wonder if she'd be cool if I tried ______?" Every guy has his own favorite position, or fetish. Some they've tried, and others they just thought about. He might be fantasizing about playfully slapping your ass, or finishing somewhere else. The point is, if you're up for trying new things, let him know. They'll probably love you even more for it.
"Where did she learn THAT?!" Guys aren't going to complain if you pull a new bedrom move, but it doesn't mean they won't be thinking about it - especially if it's not something you both have spoken about previously. He'll just wonder where your inspiration came from, but for the most part, they'll be happy to be part of your sexual experiment.
"I can't believe that just happened!" Men might play it cool after, but they're actually pretty excited after a great sex session with you. They're thinking they've got a hot lady in their arms, and they're brains are filled with feel-good hormones. And at that moment, they don't give a shit about the tonne of things they have to get done right now. And then it's rush time - late for work, hurrying to send emails, replying texts and whatnot..
Let's face it we live in an age where stress is a major part of our lives. Whether it's stress at our workplace or personal stress around the house, we all get stressed out from time to time. Dealing with the constant pressure is not an easy job. We all need a way to unwind and put all the pressure behind us. Read more