Things You'll Need to Sort Out When Attending a Funeral
Mar 02, 2016 21:25
If you are invited to attend a funeral, this is not going to be an easy thing. You’ll be experiencing a range of emotions, and there is no right or wrong way to feel. You need to think about what you need to face and sort out when you’re attending a funeral. Here are a few ideas to be getting along with.
Are You Saying Anything?
If you are close to the person who died, or the family, you might be asked to say a few worse. A lot of people like this because they find it very cathartic. It helps them come to terms with what has happened and work towards getting closure. However, a lot of people find it very difficult to make any sort of speech because the grief is still too much. You need to understand that you might be asked to say something, and if that’s the case you need to prepare your speech.
Pay Your Respects
Funerals are sad, tragic and sombre affairs. There will be a lot of people in mourning; yourself included. And you want to take the opportunity to pay your respects in the best possible way. You might have done this by writing a personal letter to the person who has died. Or, you might want to get some funeral flowers to pay your respects in that way. There is no right or wrong way to show your respect for the deceased, as long as you are respectful and thoughtful about it.
An important thing you need to remember when it comes to a funeral is making sure you dress appropriately. Most funerals will generally go for the black theme, so you need to wear black to be respectful. You can still look good and make an effort by wearing black. However, some people don’t like to use black as they think it’s too depressing. They prefer the funeral to be a celebration of the person’s life, and that means colourful and vibrant outfits. Make sure you find out what the dress code is before the funeral if it’s not made immediately clear.
Turn Your Phone Off
You need to remember that this is a very sensitive occasion, and people are paying their respects. The last thing you want is a mobile phone going off midway through the funeral. This is going to be highly embarrassing for you, not to mention disrespectful. Turn it off as soon as you get the opportunity If you really have to leave it on make sure you put it onto silent. It might be a good idea to inform people that you’ll be at a funeral so you’ll be unreachable. This stops you from getting phone calls and messages at inopportune times
Funerals are never an easy thing to deal with, so you need to make sure you’re ready. It might be the funeral of a family member or friend, and that’s going to be very difficult for you to deal with. So you’ve got to make sure you understand and appreciate what it’s going to be like at a funeral. You’ll need to do certain things and behave in a certain way when you’re there. Try to use this post as a guide to make the process a little less horrible for you.
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